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This could be a sticky question and I have a feeling that some of your answers are going to be based on where you live (urban or rural), how well you know the employees in your store, etc. But I thought it might be an interesting conversation….
Yesterday, Merissa shared a link with me about a couple arrested for forgetting to pay for sandwiches and asked what I thought about it. The “nutshell version”?
- A couple and their 3-year old daughter were grocery shopping. The pregnant wife started to feel light-headed so they grabbed some sandwiches from the self-serve deli. They ate the sandwiches while shopping, placed the wrappers in their cart (saying that they made no effort to conceal them) and continued shopping.
- They paid for their groceries, but for one reason or another, the wrappers didn’t make it on the the belt at checkout and they didn’t pay for them.
- They were confronted outside the store by 2 men who asked them to show their receipt that they paid for the sandwiches.
- The couple apologized, said it was an oversight and offered to pay for the 2 sandwiches ($5). Instead, the manager called the police, they were both arrested. Since both parents were arrested, their daughter was placed with CPS overnight.
Ok – I have a few things to say about this, and then I would love to hear your thoughts!
The fact that they ate a prepackaged item (as opposed to something like produce, where the final price is determined by weight at the cash register) doesn’t bother me AT ALL. We have done this in the past (I have been known to grab a single serve soda halfway through my shopping trip, finish it while shopping and hand the empty bottle to the cashier to scan). In most jurisdictions, it is not the eating of the item while in the store that is stealing, but leaving the store without paying for it.
That being said…..
If, as they said, they made no effort to conceal the wrappers, I am having a hard time believing that they DIDN’T see the wrappers in the cart once all of their groceries were loaded on the to cart. I’ve been shopping with a 2-year old while pregnant (as well as a 5 and 3-year old while pregnant) and at no time was I struck suddenly blind that I wouldn’t see wrappers in a cart that had been emptied of groceries. But maybe that is me.
and THAT being said….
Calling the police on the couple over $5 in sandwiches seems like overkill. And having both parents arrested over $5 in chicken salad sandwiches so that their child is taken by CPS and will now have a “CPS file” until she is 18 seems like Overkill-On-a-Freddy-Kreuger-level.
Like I said – I have done this. We have shopped at stores that sold pizza by the slice and Brad grabbed a slice, ate it while we were shopping, and handed the empty pizza box to the cashier. I have done the same with soda bottles. When the kids were younger and had more in-store meltdowns, I opened many many bags of Goldfish. Not ONCE did I forget to pay for them.
What do you think? Have you eaten prepackaged items (not items where you pay by weight) at the grocery store before paying for them? Why or Why Not?
And what do you think about the manager’s reaction to this couple?




































