Perfectly Frugal or Perfect Frugality?

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It used to be that people who used coupons were given dirty looks or looks of pity in the stores.  We were seen as “the po’ folk” (and some of us are and were) because they were under the impression that we were going to quite a bit of trouble to save “two or three dollars” (how little they know!).

“For the time they spend cutting coupons they could just work a few more hours and bring home more money”

and so on (to see my previous rants on this mindset, click here here and here) 

Then the economy tanked….and frugal became all the rage.  The magazines, newspapers and television have been full of tips on cutting back on your expenses.

And the mocking has begun.  But this time, it is a “reverse mocking”

“Oh – poor baby had to cut back on her $10 per day Starbucks habit!  I’ve never even been to a Starbucks!”

“Are they kidding?  Save money by skipping the manicures and pedicures?  Who ever had the money for that in the first place?”

“They really think that buying a 3-year old car instead of a brand-new one is the key to not losing their home?  My car is 20 years old!”

“These people don’t know what it means to be frugal.  I know what it means”

and so on….

Now that being frugal is “in” there seems to be a rush to secure one’s place as Frugaler-than-Thou (no – I don’t think “frugaler” is a word…it just flowed better than “more frugal”).  It’s almost as if people are gloating that the formerly better-off (financially) now find themselves needing to tighten their belts.  It’s “payback time”.

It’s a very unattractive quality in a person.

Shouldn’t they be applauded for being Perfectly Frugal?  Can you be Perfectly Frugal if you don’t practice Perfect Frugality?

What is a difference between Perfect Frugality and being Perfectly Frugal?

  • Perfect Frugality makes their own laundry detergent and washes only in cold water to save energy costs.
  • Perfectly Frugal looks for a BOGO sale on laundry detergent and pairs it with a coupon (and maybe even a Catalina deal).
  • Perfect Frugality would never dream of stepping foot in a Starbucks and spending $3 for a latte.
  • Perfectly Frugal starts making more coffee at home yet still indulges in the occasional latte or Dunkin Donuts coffee.
  • Perfect Frugality will make any sacrifice necessary to spend less money.
  • Perfectly Frugal is making changes in their spending that are both significant and that they are willing to sustain.

Frugality is not a zero-sum game.  It isn’t all or nothing

Being Perfectly Frugal is all about making changes that benefit your financial situation AND still allow you to enjoy life.  What good is our time on this planet if we are miserable? 

Yes – I spend a very small amount at the grocery store and am always actively searching out freebies.  I stay home as much as possible to avoid wasting gas and I would rather throw a blanket on my lap while watching TV (or typing this post) than turn up the thermostat.  I also continue to pay WAY too much for my skin care and makeup and have a serious Coldwater Creek addiction.  I don’t want to practice Perfect Frugality in all areas of my life.  I am content with being Perfectly Frugal.   Perfectly Frugal is whatever works for your family in more ways than saving money.

It’s not a competition.  Any person that is trying to come over to the Frugal Side of The Force deserves encouragement and support.

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Feeding a Family on $50 Per Week: Part 4

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New to this series?  Don’t forget to read Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3!

This was originally set to be the final part of this series…until I started typing and realized that it would be way too long of a post (and I’ve been sick since Tuesday afternoon and that part of the post requires more thinking than I can do right now).  Part 5 should go up tomorrow!  Sorry!

This part of the series takes you to the supermarket with me.  When I say that I spend $50 per week, I only include the cash that I pull out of my wallet.  As a reminder, I am in what I call “stockpile maintenance mode” and as I have said several time before (including in Part 3), I did not build my stockpile on $50 per week.  In the span of 1 year, I went from about $150-$175 per week with a mostly empty pantry to $50 per week with a pantry and freezer that is so full that I put myself on a spending freeze for the month of February.

Here’s an approximate breakdown of where the $50 goes each week:

Milk:  $7-$10.50  unfortunately, there is no getting around this cost or reducing it.  We go through 2-3 gallons of milk per week and Pennsylvania sets minimum milk prices.  A gallon of 1% is approximately $3.50.  I am able to stretch it and only go through 2 gallons per week when I can get good deals on soymilk (for baking and my coffee) or evaporated milk (diluted and used for baking only.  many recipes call for undiluted evaporated milk anyway, since it gives the recipe extra creaminess/body).  I know that some people suggest powdered milk, but I can never bring myself to try it (it just skeeves me out).  I envy people in other states where they allow sales on milk…in PA, a “sale” is selling it at the state minimum.

Bread:  $2-3  I can usually get whole wheat sandwich bread on sale for $1-$1.50 per loaf.  We go through approximately 2 loaves per week. I make “dinner breads” and muffins from scratch.

Eggs and Dairy:  $5  I typically alternate these, as both will keep for 2 weeks or longer (seriously – check the expiration dates).  One week I may get 3 dozen eggs for $4-5 (depending on sales and if those sales include Egglands, since I usually have coupons for Egglands).  The next week I may get 15-20 Yoplait Yogurts for the same $4-5 after sales & coupons.  Sour cream can usually be had for $.66 a pint (Daisy brand after sale & coupon).  “Regular” cheese are purchased at stock-up prices and frozen and are not part of the normal dairy spending.

Fresh Produce:  $12-15  whatever is in-season and cheapest.  Right now, it is bananas (about $5 per week), apples (usually a 5lb bag will last 2 weeks and they have been $.99/lb lately), bagged salad when I can get it for free (Fresh Express on a 10 for $10 sale with a $.75 coupon that is doubled up to $1) or a head of Romaine.  Baby carrots can always be found for $1-$1.50/1lb bag.  A pint of grape tomatoes for $2.50.   Potatoes & onions are always on sale for about $4/bag and will each last 2 weeks (alternate weeks with buying them).

Everything else/the stockpile:  $17-20 per week + any Catalinas and Extra Care Bucks and gift cards.  This includes frozen fruit & veggies, chicken broth, meats, cereals, cheeses, pastas, baking mixes, flour; toiletries and cleaning products at CVS, etc. 

The $17-$20 goes to deals like this or this.  In the weeks where I am unable to do these kinds of deals I will usually just carry the some or all of the balance over until the next week.  For an example of a shopping trip where I just get a few stockpile items and don’t carry over a balance, click here.

As for cleaning items and toiletries?  I have been rolling the same $40 Extra Care Bucks at CVS + about $1-2 cash per week for over a year now.  I haven’t paid money out-of-pocket for toothpaste (except 1 certain one that only my older son uses), shampoo, conditioner, body wash, deodorant, shaving cream, razors, pain reliever or cold/allergy medicine since about a month after I started “CVSing“.  The same is true for Rite Aid.  The first month I did about $30 in deals, paid about $25 in cash (after coupons) and got a $30 Single Check Rebate.  I simply took that check to RiteAid and converted it in to a Gift Card and I use that gift card to do more SCR deals.  By repeating this process each month, I haven’t pulled a dime out of my wallet at Rite Aid in more than 6 months and have walked out with a whole bunch of products!

I take advantage of the $10-25 Gift cards for transferred prescriptions all the time (we just have a flouride prescription that we don’t have to pay for anyway)…every month I “make” $10-$25 at Rite Aid, CVS or a grocery store by “prescription surfing” for the gift cards (note:  if you are going to do this and have multiple prescriptions and are put on a new and different one, you must tell the pharmacist about any other prescriptions you are taking!).  Those gift cards go towards things that I need, but for which I sometimes can’t get a good deal (like toilet paper, paper towels, etc).

But by thinking ahead, I can always find good deals.  For instance, back in June/July I purchased 70 boxes of Kleenex for $12.50 by combining a Catalina deal with coupons and doing the deal several times.  People thought I was nuts for buying that many especially in the summer….but it’s February and that stockpile of Kleenex is still going strong (although I’ve put a serious dent in it this week!).  I am down to about 30 boxes which means that I will actively start looking for the next Kleenex/Puffs deal to start replenishing. Dishwasher detergent?  I have a 2-year supply of Electrasol by combining a $2.50 coupon with it being on sale for $2.99-$3.25 (the $2.50 coupon has come out twice in the last few months). 

The bottom line? 

It is very rare that I buy something that isn’t on sale (a real sale, not one of those “let’s knock $.09 off an item and call it a sale).  It is also rare that I don’t use a coupon for those sale items (even rice, butter, sugar and flour have coupons that can be combined with a sale if you look hard enough).

Learn to live off your stockpile, replenishing when you get the deals.  Meats freeze – so do cheeses, breads, etc.

Respect the stockpile by rotating it.  Frozen bread is no good if it has freezer burn.  Pancake mix is no good if it has been sitting in your pantry for a year.  Use a “First In, First Out” system to avoid any waste and make your stockpile work for you.

Learn that food is nourishment, not emotional fulfillment.  I don’t look for my food to give me happiness (well – except Snickers bars).  When I want the “indulgent” food, we budget for it accordingly.  When I want to give my family tasty food to give their bodies fuel for the day, I look online for recipes using what I have in the house.  Believe me – grab almost any 3 items out of your pantry/freezer and Google the 3 of them in 1 search….you’ll find a recipe that uses them!

The next and final installment?  A few weekly menus for our house with plenty of links to recipes and resources.

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Around the Blogosphere: 2/1/09

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I know I just did one 6 days ago, but there have been some real gems!

Besides, this will give you something to read while I am drinking Iron City beer (although just 1 before I switch to something that doesn’t taste like sewer water), eating pierogis and BenBurgers and watching the Steelers trounce the Cardinals! GO STEELERS!

By the way – see the BlogHerAd directly to your right?  Just under the ad is usually 4 or 5 posts that you can click on.  I highly encourage you to check out the posts that look interesting to you…it’s where I found some of these!

Brad at Enemy of Debt wrote “MYTH:  I Don’t Make Enough to Do a Total Money Makeover” .  While he and I agree on very little (REALLY glad the election is over), we are both Dave Ramsey fanatics and can agree that everyone can improve their financial situation!  

GroceryMama wrote “I Don’t Need Any More Toothpaste”.  If you are new to couponing and getting the great deals, this is a must-read.  We all go through this phase and you will too!

Marcy at Stretching a Buck:  “Dressing Well For Less”.   As a former and current Coldwater Creek & Chicos addict, I loved this post.

My entire family hails from about 45 minutes north of Indianapolis.  One of my favorite things to eat whenever I go there to visit family is tenderloins.  Jenn at Frugal Upstate shared her recipe for German Shnitzel that is pretty much the same (except in Indiana they skip the lemon and whatever gravy she is showing & put it on a hamburger roll with pickles, onion, and mayo or ketchup….and never with cheese).  My mouth was watering just reading it!

And to get your SuperBowl laugh, check out the horrible SuperBowl cakes featured on Cake Wrecks.  I love that site because it gives me my daily chuckle in my feedreader!

If you know of a post that should be featured in the my next “Around The Blogosphere” (including one of your own), just email me a link!

Oh and by the way…..

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Coupon Insert Preview: 2/1/09

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As a reminder, when I list the number of newspapers that I will be buying, I take in to account that I am able to get them at the Dollar Tree for only $1/copy. To find a Dollar Tree near you, click here. Don’t have a Dollar Tree? Check out your local dollar store. Many supermarkets even discount the Sunday paper. I also live in an area where all of the stores double up to $.99 (so a $.75 coupon is actually worth $1.50). If your newspapers are more expensive or you live where they don’t double coupons, you may not find the inserts of the same value as I do!

It’s not a very exciting week for coupons….but there are a few good ones!

My regular source for the preview still isn’t up yet, so click here and scroll down to the 5th message in the thread to see a complete listing of coupons this week!

Coupons of Note

Colgate Toothpaste:  $.75   it’s a short expiration date (2/21/09), but you can usually find it on sale for $2 or cheaper somewhere each week

Softsoap Liquid Hand Soap:  $.35   these go 10 for $10 all the time (including at Acme this week), making them $.30 after doubling

Betty Crocker Fruit Roll-Ups:  $.50   these are on sale for $2 all the time and are often part of a Catalina deal

Lime-Away Cleaner:  $1   I can’t remember the last time that I saw a coupon for this.  I have really hard water where I live (even with an installed water softener) and this stuff is great for getting the water spots off the shower door!  It’s one of those things that doesn’t go on sale often, so any coupon for it is a bonus!

Egglands Best Eggs:  $.35   I have to say – it’s not hype.  These eggs really do taste better (in my never-to-be-humble opinion).  Once this coupon is doubled, it makes the eggs the same price as store-brand eggs in my area…..or better if they are on sale!

Lysol coupons:  pair them with a BOGO sale

Healthy Ones Lunchmeat:  $.75   the prepackaged ones come in 2 sizes (8 oz and 5oz).  the 5 oz size has been going on & off sale at 3 for $5 all month and the 8oz size have been about $3 each.  The pre-packaged ones are vacuum-sealed inside the package, which means that you can stock up on them on a sale and freeze them!  Even better – the 8oz size comes in a tub that is the same things as a Ziploc container and can be easily re-used (yes – I am exactly that much of a cheapskate!)

Sucrets product:  $1.50   this is another item for which you rarely see coupons (or sales). 

Breeze or Contour Meter:  $30  by the time this coupon expires in November, CVS should have another ECB deal on this which will make it a moneymaker (you can donate the meter).

Bayer Aspirin:  $1   another item that you can find on an ECB deal as a freebie.  This coupon will make it a moneymaker!

L’Oreal Coupons:  CVS, Walgreens and Rite Aid are always having great deals on these.  Coupons just make the deal sweeter!

Smart Balance coupons:  I am not a fan of the popcorn, but all of the others are pretty good (even the peanut butter – go figure!).  These go on sale fairly frequently. 

So how many copies of the paper would I buy?

If I was building a stockpile:  3-4

Now that I am in stockpile maintenance mode:  1-3

Why so few?  The coupons that provide the best savings and potential for great deals (Colgate, Egglands and Healthy Ones) have been all over the recent inserts and come out fairly regularly (I think that this is the 3rd time that there have been $.75 Healthy Ones coupons in the past 5 weeks).  There are some nice savings this week, but nothing spectacular!

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Feeding a Family on $50 per Week: Part 3

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Are you new to this series?  Don’t forget to read Part 1 and Part 2!

As I have mentioned before, I did not get to my current weekly budget overnight.  When I started my journey to (what I like to call) Psychotic Couponing, I was spending approximately $150 per week.  At the time, I was pretty proud of myself because that total was after sale prices and about $30 in coupons each week.

That was just over a year ago. 

There’s a few things that I need to mention as they are a huge part of how I am able to keep my grocery bill so low:

1.  We have no food allergies in our house (other than the allergy my husband seems to have to healthy food)

2.  I live in an area where all grocery stores double coupons up to $.99.  A $.75 coupon has an actual value of $1.50.  This fact alone makes it much easier for me to keep my grocery spending so low

3.  I am a stay-at-home mom who lives less than 5 miles from 4 major grocery stores, a Rite Aid, 2 CVS stores and (soon) a Walgreen’s.  While I don’t visit all of them each week (typically 1-3 per week), I do have the flexibility of just “popping in” to one if I am on my way home from a playdate or appointment.

In Part 1 I spoke about the importance of using your freezer and pantry to hold your stockpile.  The question is, how do you create your stockpile with a minimum amount of money?

  1. Find the coupons
  2. Get them organized
  3. Either create a price book or find a site that details the best deals at your area grocery store.

The first, second and third are easy.  I could take up space here going over them, but just by clicking on the links you will get all the information you need.  Let’s skip right to #4 & 5!

4.  Look for items that you can get for free or close-to-free each week with a sale and coupon (and that you will use, not that you need right now) and stock up on those items as much as you can

Almost every week, there is something that you can get for free (if your store has double coupons) or close to free. Occasionally it will be your favorite products, but very often it is a new-to-the-market product.  Sales at the store are often subsidized by the company, especially in the beginning as companies hope to to hook you on their new product.  The best recent example I can give is Green Giant Valley Steamers.  Since they came out there have been lots of $.50 coupons and just as many 10 for $10 and 4 for $5 sales…..and I haven’t paid a penny for one of them.  If you have a CVS, Walgreens or Rite Aid near you, there is almost always shampoo, toothpaste or something similar that is free after Extra Care Bucks, Register Rewards or Single Check Rebate.  Get in the habit of scouting out those deals until you have a nice little stockpile! (still not convinced on the value of stockpiling?  Click here )

One of the reasons that my weekly budget is so low is because I no longer pay for shampoo, conditioner, body wash, toothpaste, toothbrushes, baby wipes and many other toiletries.  I have stocked up on these items when there was an amazing deal at the drug stores and now I don’t even have to think about buying those things.  I just keep an eye out for the next deal (and the good thing?  They come with enough frequency that I either skip a bunch or get them for free and donate them!)

5.  Look for Catalina/ECB deals.  Roll your Catalinas/ECBs for as long as you have coupons or storage space.

When I say that my grocery budget is $50/$57 (depending on if I am counting in my diaper budget) per week, I don’t include Catalinas and ECBsMy budget is based on the money that I physically pull out of my wallet, not the total at the register.  Almost all stores (I believe that WalMart is an exception…shocking, I know!) offer Catalina deals and when you can combine a Catalina deal with double coupons, you can seriously clean up!  Check out this post, this post and this post to see some examples of how Catalina Deals have helped me to stock up on an obscene amount of groceries for an average of 95% off.  Incredible stock-up opportunities like that happen about once every 4-6 weeks and I take full advantage of them.  They help to make up for the weeks where I “only” save 50%!

Repeat #4 & #5 the following week and every week until you hit the lottery and hire a personal chef and shopper with your $624 million(and don’t forget to invite your friend Mindi to your mansion.  I’ll bring Bisquick!).

The next post (and possibly final) post in the series?  You get to go shopping with me, see how my $50/week breaks down and what I feed my family!

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Around the Blogosphere: 1/25/09

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You know what happens when another site links to me?  It pops up on my WordPress Dashboard  and I click through the link to make sure nobody is calling me names.  So far, so good (on the name calling part). 

Guess what also happens?  I go poking around your site and usually find some gems!

Some of my favorite posts from the past few weeks include:

I think my absolute favorite for the past few weeks was a guest post on Wide Open Wallet written by Saver in the CityGrocery Store Mind Games

 Mercedes (I think I’m developing a full-blown “girl crush” on her)posted a great article entitled “Would You Do This If you Didn’t Have To?”  It’s a great topic!  I know that if money was no object, I would have a hard time switching to “non-frugal mode”!

My New 30 popped up on my Dashboard just the other day and when I clicked through I found a site full of recipes that my husband will LOVE.  As you may remember, I have Bisquick coming out of my ears and her Bisquick Biscuits with Chorizo Sausage Gravy looks wonderful (as do the other Bisquick recipes in the post).  The recipes may not all be frugal and they may not be diet-friendly…but they sure do look good!  Make sure you check out her Healthy & Delicious High Fiber Pancakes (made with Bisquick!) 

If you’ve been couponing for more than 2 months, you probably have more crescent roll coupons than you know what to do with!  TidyMom posted a recipe for Chocolate Crescents that is wonderful!  I’m thinking that I can stock up with the next sale, make these and freeze them until I’m ready to bake!

I’ve been meaning to post this for over a week, but Kendra at Shopping For Two has updated her Budget Spreadsheet and I just LOVE the tweaks that she made!    This is the same spreadsheet that we use each month to create our Family Budget.  To get the spreadsheet, simply sign up for her email list.  Don’t worry – she only sends a few emails a month and they are packed with valuable information (and she’s a sweetie!)! 

Did you see any other great posts or would you like me to read one of yours?  Send me the link!

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Feeding a Family on $50 per Week: part 2

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Click here to read the first post in this series.

I know you were probably hoping that I would give you the magic cure for your grocery woes in this post, but there is something more important that needs to be discussed first.

(never fear – this is going to be a fast-moving series and should be wrapped up by Friday!)

You need to change the way you look at family meals and grocery shopping.  If you were hoping that I would let you in on the secret to having crown roasts, veal chops, filet mignon and gouda each week for $50, then you are going to be very disappointed.  Being frugal is about being able to embrace simplicity.  The good news is, after a decade of playing Keeping Up With The Jones’, frugalness and ”getting back to basics” is becoming more popular in this country!  You won’t be alone!

Look for things that you can eliminate or at least where you can cut back.  I love Diet Pepsi as much as the next person, but water (from the tap or a Brita pitcher) is much cheaper and I can get tea bags dirt cheap and make iced tea.  We still have soda in the house…we are just much more mindful of the cost and limit our consumption accordingly. 

Realize that it isn’t necessarily about making big changes, but little ones that add up to big savings.  Juice boxes are convenient, but a half-gallon of apple juice and a cup are cheaper.  Look at the cost per pound between buying a box of 100-calorie packs of Wheat Thins (for which you can rarely find coupons or Catalina deals) and a box of Reduced Fat Wheat Thins and some Ziploc bags (both of which you can get much cheaper!).

Get together with your family and figure out your “non-negotiables”.  By that I mean those items which  you wouldn’t switch brands even if they were giving the other stuff away for free.  For mothers of infants, this often means Pampers.  It may be your brand of coffee or your favorite creamed spinach.  In our house, we can only use Downy Fabric Softener or Bounce, as every other brand makes my middle child break out in hives.  The list will probably be longer in the beginning and that’s ok!  You will find the list getting shorter and shorter as time goes on and you realize that your hair WON’T fall out if you use Sunsilk Extra Moisturizing instead of Pantene Daily Moisture Renewal (although it won’t be long until you figure out how to get both brands for free!)

Become Betty Crocker and stop trying to be Giada & Ina.  The Betty Crocker Cookbook is one book that no home should be without.  It has undergone several revisions over the years, but the basics are still the same.  Look at the recipes in the book:  most of them can be made for very little money (especially if you are in the habit of stockpiling the ingredients).  The popularity of The Food Network has made us think that we need to cook like the TV chefs every night of the week.  While I have more Food Network on my Tivo than anything else and am usually the first in line at Williams-Sonoma when those chefs are having a book signing, I save most of their recipes for special occasions and parties (although Rachael Ray tends to have more everyday recipes that can be made for less money).  Your family won’t love you more just because you serve them lobster risotto instead of chicken and herbed rice.  Check out the $5 Dinner website for more low-cost and yummy recipes than you can ever possibly make!  The mark of a good cook is the ability to take the least expensive cuts of meat and turn them in to something extraordinary.

And don’t tell me that you can’t cook.  The old saying is:  “If you can read then you can cook!”.  And since you are reading this……

Keep your produce purchases to in-season, low-cost items.  We have many weeks where the extent of our fruits are bananas & apples (the 2 least expensive fruits right now) and whatever frozen berries I have managed to stockpile on the cheap.  The veggies may be frozen steam-in-the-bag veggies (that I can get free-to-cheap), along with lettuce, carrots, tomatoes and cucumbers. 

(this would probably be a good time to mention that I am the only person in my house who will eat vegetables other than corn & peas….although my kids are in for a very rude awakening as soon as I get the energy and desire to become MeanestMomInTheWorld and force the issue!  Once I get my kids eating veggies, I will happily increase my food budget by $5-10 per week)

The benefit of keeping your produce selection simple is that you have less waste because you had to have 8 different kinds of fruit that week and didn’t eat all of it before it spoiled.   Stores have been practically giving frozen veggies away the last few months.  If you can stockpile a nice selection of frozen berries (I’m not a fan of frozen melon, but that’s just me), then you can buy the fresh stuff when it is at it’s cheapest and still have a few of your favorites without paying through the nose because it is out of season!

Your family needs to be on board with the changes that are going to be made in the refrigerator, pantry and around the house.  A $50 per week budget doesn’t leave much room for Boboli, Ben & Jerry’s and Brie (unless you can find really good coupons and an equally good sale).   Get together and talk about the changes that you are making and WHY you are making them.  The family needs to work together as a team or you are doomed to failure. 

The bottom line?  You need to K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple…uh…Silly!)

Simple is good.  Simple has worked for generations.  Simple is frugal.

Simple is the first place to start.

(click here for part 3)

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Angel Food Ministries: A great resource!

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One of the drawbacks of what I do with this site is that I now seem to live in my own “frugal bubble”.  I hear or read someone talking about a program or organization and just assume that everyone else in the world knows about it.

Today I was talking to a woman from the St. Vincent DePaul chapter at my church and I mentioned Angel Food Ministries and was shocked that she hadn’t heard about it…..because I live in my little bubble!  Time to pop the bubble!

So what is Angel Food Ministries?

Simply put, it is a place where you can go and get enough food to help feed a family of 4 for a week for only $30You can even pay for your box of food using Food Stamps.  The estimated retail value of each box is $60 and you do have the ability to add on other packages (more produce, more meat, etc).   Box pickups are once a month.  Orders are taken at the beginning of each month, with pickup being towards the end of the month.  Check with your local pickup site for exact dates.

To help you stretch the value of your box, please visit Hillbilly Housewife, where she provides recipes and an additional shopping list to help you stretch your box out to a full month of dinners!  Hillbilly Housewife is very frugal, so rest assured that her recipes and shopping list are designed to give you the most bang for your buck!

If you need to drastically reduce your costs, Angel Food Ministries may be a good place to help you get started! Click here to find a pickup location near you.  Orders for the end-of-February pickup are being taken now

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Coupon Insert Preview: 1/25/09

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As a reminder, when I list the number of newspapers that I will be buying, I take in to account that I am able to get them at the Dollar Tree for only $1/copy. To find a Dollar Tree near you, click here. Don’t have a Dollar Tree? Check out your local dollar store. Many supermarkets even discount the Sunday paper. I also live in an area where all of the stores double up to $.99 (so a $.75 coupon is actually worth $1.50). If your newspapers are more expensive or you live where they don’t double coupons, you may not find the inserts of the same value as I do!

The coupons this week aren’t that exciting.  A few good ones, but not anything that has me making sure I am at the Dollar Tree when they unlock the doors! 

Click here for a list of the coupons scheduled to be in the inserts this week (please note that the values of coupons tend to vary by region)

Coupons of Note

Butterball Pre-Sliced Deli Lunchmeat:  $.65 combined with a BOGO sale or Triples at Superfresh, this can get me some inexpensive Turkey

Carnation Evaporated Milk:  $.50/2 these go 10 for $10 or cheaper all the time.  I use this for baking all the time and will even mix it with equal parts water when I am making things like pancakes instead of “regular milk”. 

Carvel Cake coupons:  we always get a Carvel cake for Valentines Day.  My husband can (and will) eat an entire cake by himself in 3 days (and yet he never seems to gain any weight….grrrrrrrr!)

Cheerios or Chex Mix:  $.50 these go 10 for 10 and 3 for $5 all the time, making them really-cheap-to-free

Chock Full O Nuts:  $.75 I gave up my expensive “put hair on your chest” brand of coffee about 4 months ago.  This coffee is one of the few that I have found that is a good substitute and goes BOGO all the time and will double to $1.50 off

Fiber One Chewy Bars:  $.50 I am in love with the people at Fiber One for managing to make such wonderful products…many with chocolate!  I have seen these as low as 3 for $5, but more often 2 for $4.  They are a part of almost every General Mills Catalina Deal.

Hersheys coupons:  CVS has been running pretty frequent ECB deals on Hershey and these will help with those.  Hold on to the $2/2 coupon for a BOGO deal (and don’t forget – chocolate freezes very easily!)

Lysol Coupons:  I am pretty loyal to Lysol and these go BOGO and half-price pretty frequently.  There should be some pretty good sales close to the expiration dates (3/23/09) as stores start promoting Spring Cleaning deals

Pert coupons:  there is a good chance that CVS, Rite Aid or Walgreen’s will have a deal that makes it free after ECB/SCR/RR.  This coupons will turn it in to a moneymaker.

Pilgrims Pride:  $.75 I finally found this the other day.  I’ve seen it at both Target and Walmart.  I have no idea how their chicken nuggets compare with other brands

Pillsbury Coupons:  if you have been using coupons for more than a month or so, you probably have Pillsbury coupons coming out of your ears!  However, the $.35 crescent roll coupon is always a good one if you wait for a 10 for $10 sale.  By the way – you can freeze these by either putting them directly in the freezer (put them in your kitchen freezer for a few hours before you put them in your deep freezer.  They will freeze slower and you will have less of a chance of them popping open) or by opening them up, rolling them in to the crescent shapes and laying them on a cookie sheet to freeze.  Once frozen, just throw them in a Ziploc bag.  This is also great if you typically won’t go through an entire tube in 1 meal because you can just grab as many as you need for dinner!

Pop Secret:  $.50/2 wait for a BOGO sale

Post Cereals:  $1/2 there have been some good deals on Post Cereals lately…I have seen get $4 off instantly wyb 4 as well as free milk wyb 4

Ritz, Wheat Thins or Triscuit:  $2/2 almost all the stores have these on sale this week for about $2 (Ritz are a little higher).  If you are an Acme Shopper, you can get 4 boxes, use 2 of these coupons and get free cheese all for only $4 ($6 if you get all Ritz Crackers) after coupons and the deal.

Science Diet coupons:  although I don’t pay attention to pet food prices, I do know that I can’t remember the last time I saw coupons for this brand

Simply Orange w/Pineapple or Mango:  $.55 these go on sale fairly frequently

Stacy’s Pita Chips:  $1.50 I don’t see these on sale that often, but these are really delicious and coupons are rare!

Totinos Pizza Rolls Snacks:  $.35 we don’t see nearly as many 10 for $10 sales on these as we used to, but they do go 4 for $5 and 3 for $5 frequently

Wanchai Ferry Dinner Kit:  $1  everyone seems to have dropped their price on these by about $1.50.  I haven’t tried these yet, but might now that they aren’t so expensive!

Advil Coupons:  CVS will probably have a “free after ECB deal” on this between now and the expiration date.  These coupons will turn it in to a small moneymaker

Breakstones Sour Cream:  $.55 stores put this on sale at 3 for $5 all the time, making for $.56 sour cream after doubling

Hillshire Farms Cocktail Links:  $1/2 stores should be having good sales this week and (for the stores that start their sales on Friday) next week in honor of Super Bowl.  These are a little pricey, so I would save it for a BOGO sale

One Touch Blood Glucose Monitoring System:  $20 I don’t have diabetes and I always save these for when CVS is offering an ECB deal on them.  Between the rebates that the company offers, the ECB deal and the coupon, it makes for an easy moneymaker of at least $5 (if you don’t have diabetes, donate the monitor to a local retirement home or ambulance corp.  I save mine to give to my sister-in-law who works in a hospital)

Pampers Easy Ups:  $2 (deals on Easy Ups are more frequent than deals on regular diapers)

 

So how many copies of the paper would I buy?

If I were building a stockpile:  4-6

Now that I am in stockpile maintenance mode: 4-6

 

Why so many?  My children love Wheat Thins and the $2/2 coupon “pays” for the paper all by itself (because i only pay $1 for my newspapers).  The Totinos coupons are a bonus, as are the Chex Mix and especially the Chock Full O Nuts!

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Getting Freebies the Smart Way

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We all love free stuff.  Walk in to any Costco or Sams Club on a Saturday afternoon and see how people completely lose their minds over the chance to sample 1/12 of a Hot Pocket if you need proof!

The Internets are full of freebies as well…they are out there for the taking as long as you follow a few simple rules:

Be Sane

Get an email address that you use exclusively for freebies (Yahoo and Hotmail are great for this). While some companies will only send the occasional email, others will send you an email every 4 minutes! In many cases, the “unsubscribe” button will be honored. In far too many others – it won’t and your email may even be sold. The last thing you want is to have your “regular” email filled up with even more ads for “male stuff” and notifications that you won the Irish National Lottery! You are basically setting up an email to collect the spam that comes from being a Freebie Hunter.

Be Cautious.

Never ever give a credit card number for your freebie. Heck – I typically refuse to give my phone number!  Free Samples are supposed to be FREE samples!

As for those Free Trials that say that your credit card won’t be billed as long as you cancel within the first 14 days?  From what I understand, you may as well start dialing the phone as soon as you hit “submit”, because it will take you that long to get hold of someone.  Unless you like disputing credit card charges, pass right on by these!

Be Aware

Look at the website before you sign up for the freebie. Are there a ton of Google ads on it? Any other ads other than for other products by that company (for instance, if the Chex Mix freebie had an ad for Yoplait…they are both General Mills Products and that’s “ok”). The presence of “outside ads” is often an indication that there will be no freebie in your mailbox, and someone is just hoping to get a ton of traffic by saying that they are giving one out. (another exception to this would be the ads that are on well-known sites, such as walmart.com, etc)

As for the ones that say you will get a free item upon completion of a “short” survey? Skip ‘em! Chances are that after you have completed the so-called “short” survey (all 27 pages of it), and you have given them all the info they wanted, you will be suddenly “disqualified” from the survey….no freebie for you!   

Be fair and reasonable.

There really is no need to get every freebie just because you can. This isn’t a game of “she who dies with the most trial sizes wins”. Companies give out freebies because they are hoping to turn you in to a new customer. If you don’t have a dog, do you really need a sample of dog food?   If your “baby” is 22 years old, do you need a free sample of Huggies?

Along the same lines, pay attention to the companies and to whom they intend to give the freebies and please respect that.  If the freebie is for a hair-care product being marketed to Beauty Salon owners, don’t sign up under Mindi’s House of Beauty and think that the daily brushing of your children’s hair “counts”.  Once freebies like this pop up on the Internets and the company finds themselves suddenly with 1200 requests per hour, they figure it out anyway…you won’t be gettting the freebie! 

 

These are just the rules that I use for myself.  You are free to conduct your freebie hunting in any way that you want.  If you want to decorate your house with free cattle industry and horse vitamin posters… have at it!

What advice can you give to the beginning freebie hunter?  Post them in the comments!

To keep up with the freebies I list, just click here!

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