I Don’t Shop on Black Friday (and certainly not on Thanksgiving!)

Get Ready For Christmas

I have a confession to make: For all the Black Friday deals that I have been posting, I haven’t been to a store on Black Friday for at least 10 years!

There are several reasons for this and recovering from my turkey/wine coma is certainly one of them. I know that some people just LOVE to get up at 2:00am and hit the stores that morning. I am not one of them. Here’s why:

  1. The deals really aren’t that great any longer – certainly not “getting up at 2:00am-worthy”, in my opinion. If there is one thing that I know – it’s deals. I have been posting a bunch of Black Friday deals on things like Keurigs, XBoxes and more and, while there are some nice deals on those items, I have seen much better prices on a regular basis when shopping online.
  2. Many of the same deals are available online – and earlier than you can get them in the stores. I remember 2 years ago, sitting at my sister’s kitchen table Thanksgiving morning and being SHOCKED when some of the best deals that I had scheduled to post at midnight were already live on the websites. Last year, many of those deals went live on Wednesday afternoon. This year, some of those Black Friday deals are already available on the websites!
  3. I have to work. Ok – lame excuse, but I spend all day finding deals to post and this time of the year, the deals that I am posting are ones that I just bought for myself. I’ll be at my laptop at 4:00am on Black Friday looking to find deals for you guys ;-) .  As a bonus, I can shop from home and not have to put on mascara.
  4. I don’t like how people act on Black Friday Sure – there are plenty of people walking around the stores humming “It’s The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year”…but there are even more people pushing, shoving and elbowing their way in front of you in order to get that Baby Fry Daddy at $2 cheaper than they can if they wait a week.  I’d rather spend the extra $2 and not be annoyed
  5. In-store Black Friday deals can be a budget buster.  Sure – you only went to Target to pick up that XBox for the kids, but while you are there, you might spy a great deal on a DVD, book, clothes, etc that wasn’t on your list and you CAN’T pass up that deal! With credit card spending being up this year, the last thing people need to be doing is making more “inpulse purchases!
  6. I don’t like how Black Friday is now Black Thursday.  I get that stores wouldn’t open on Thanksgiving if shoppers weren’t showing up, but I still don’t like it.  I know that some retailers pay their employees time-and-a-half-holiday pay (and some don’t), but I don’t like it. I know that stores aren’t opening until after most people are done with dinner anyway, but I don’t like it.  I know that some people WILL head out to the stores on Thursday night as a continuation of their “family time”, but I still don’t like it.  I have always felt that Thanksgiving was the ONE holiday that everyone in this country could agree on as a “day off” (except for essential jobs like police, fire, etc).  I’m not happy that it has become “just another shopping day”

So those are my reasons why I won’t be heading to the stores on Black Friday.  Some may be logical to you…some may seem silly to you.  But that is just how I roll ;-)

Do you shop on Black Friday?  Why or why not?


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Black Friday 2012 Deals | Staples Ad Preview

Is Staples on your Black Friday 2012 shopping list this year? Here are the best deals that we will see at Staples!  Doors open Friday 11/23/2012 at 3:00am.  Don’t forget that you can find many of these same deals at Staples online on Black Friday!

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Sounds of Christmas: Something About Christmas Time (Bryan Adams)

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

There is just no official video for this song (and I have been looking for YEARS) and it is one of my favorites. This was a nice montage of the done…enjoy!

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Sounds of Christmas: O Holy Night (Josh Groban)

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

I am NOT ashamed to say that I love Josh Groban!

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Sounds of Christmas: Silent Night (Stevie Nicks)

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

Stevie Nicks…She could sing the complete US Tax Code and I would be happy!

’nuff said!


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Sounds of Christmas: We Are the World

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

This song was never meant to be a Christmas song, but the song is the “true Christmas message”: help your fellow man! We all rise when we lift each other up!

Look at your pantry/stockpile. Do you have enough toothpaste and “helper dinners” to last until the Zombie Apocalypse? Consider donating to the next school, church or local food drive! Believe me, you will be happy knowing that you did!


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Sounds of Christmas: River

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

I distinctly remember the time I first heard this….It was on an Ally McBeal episode and I realized then what an AMAZING talent Robert Downey Jr was and that I looked forward to him taking back control of his career.

That being said, the Robert Downy Jr version is way too short, so here is the Joni Mitchell version!


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Sounds of Christmas: Do You Hear What I Hear?

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

This song always makes me feel inspired!


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Sounds of Christmas: Adam Sandler – Happy Hanukkah!

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

My mother converted to Judaism when I was about 7, my Dad married a Catholic when I was about 10. I had the benefit of learning about both religions…and finding fun in songs about their holidays!


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Sounds of Christmas: Do they Know It’s Christmas?

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

Ok – let’s overlook the fact that the dude from Spandeaux Ballet got more “video time” than Sting…it was the 80s!

Yeah I know that the guy from Coldplay made another version of this song…but this is a CLASSIC!

Oh – and Phil Collins on drums? AMAZING!

George Michael before he was disgraced? AMAZING!

Simon LeBon (ask your parents…I’m old!) – AMAZING!

Phil Collins on Drums – AMAZING!

Bananarama (ask your parents…I’m old!) – AMAZING

And the “tonight Thank God it’s them instead of you” has received bad press…but it’s nothing more than a “there but for the Grace of God Go I”.

This song brings a tear to my eye, because it is all about helping our fellow man! Isn’t that what Christams is all about?


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Christmas Ideas For Men: Countdown To Christmas


Out of everyone that I need to buy for, Brad is the most difficult! Thanks to Dealicious Finds, here are some great ideas for gifts for the men on your list:

Make sure you that check out the rest of the Countdown To Christmas tips that I have posted! Do you have a tip to share? Submit your Holiday Savings Tips and they might be featured in a future post!


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Sounds of Christmas: Christmas Canon

We get too wrapped up in the shopping and cooking frenzy that is the Christmas Season. From now until Christmas, please take 2-5 minutes to relax and enjoy some of the things that make my Christmas each year!

Brad and I walked down to aisle to the Canon in D Major…so when the TransSiberian Orchestra made it in to a Christmas Canon, it was extra special to us!


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